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    <title>The Loving Marriage Loving Family Podcast </title>
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    <description>The Loving Marriage Loving Family podcast is the official podcast of the Marriage and Family Education Center found at www.lovingmarriagelovingfamily.com.  On the podcast, Dr. Aaron Shaw and Troy Faddis LMFT discuss current research findings in marriage and family relationships.  Examples of topics discussed include: improving your marriage, sex, non-committal men, dealing with impossible teens, and how to be an influential parent.  </description>
    <itunes:summary>The Loving Marriage Loving Family podcast is the official podcast of the Marriage and Family Education Center found at www.lovingmarriagelovingfamily.com.  On the podcast, Dr. Aaron Shaw and Troy Faddis LMFT discuss current research findings in marriage aThe Loving Marriage Loving Family podcast is the official podcast of the Marriage and Family Education Center found at www.lovingmarriagelovingfamily.com.  On the podcast, Dr. Aaron Shaw and Troy Faddis LMFT discuss current research findings in marriage and family relationships.  Examples of topics discussed include: improving your marriage, sex, non-committal men, dealing with impossible teens, and how to be an influential parent.  </itunes:summary>
    <itunes:subtitle>Improve your marriage.  Learn how to approach difficult family situations.  </itunes:subtitle>
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    <copyright>2009. All rights reserved.</copyright>
    <pubDate>Sat, 02 May 2009 13:23:34 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>Four Negative Patterns That Prevent Change</title>
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      <description>Often in marriage not doing the harmful things is more important than doing something right.  This podcast shares four of the most destructive patterns in relationships.  If couples can avoid doing these four: patterns they will have more intimacy and satisfaction in their relationship.   </description>
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      <pubDate>Sat, 02 May 2009 13:23:34 GMT</pubDate>
      <itunes:subtitle>Four Negative Patterns That Prevent Change</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:summary>Often in marriage not doing the harmful things is more important than doing something right.  This podcast shares four of the most destructive patterns in relationships.  If couples can avoid doing these four: patterns they will have more intimacy and sat</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>marriage, avoid destructive patterns, improve communication, marriage counseling </itunes:keywords>
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      <title>The Parenting Pyramid: Help things go right &amp; spend less time punishing your kids!  </title>
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      <description>How come it seems that I spend some much time correcting my children?  Let the parenting pyramid help!  The parenting pyramid, developed by the Arbinger Institute, shares secrets on how to build influence by focusing on helping things go right.  The podcast asks parents to look beyond parenting to the relationship with their child and to the relationship with their spouse.  </description>
      <content:encoded>How come it seems that I spend some much time correcting my children?  Let the parenting pyramid help!  The parenting pyramid, developed by the Arbinger Institute, shares secrets on how to build influence by focusing on helping things go right.  The podcast asks parents to look beyond parenting to the relationship with their child and to the relationship with their spouse.  </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2009 09:41:38 GMT</pubDate>
      <itunes:subtitle>Help things go right &amp; spend less time punishing your kids!  </itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:summary>How come it seems that I spend some much time correcting my children?  Let the parenting pyramid help!  The parenting pyramid, developed by the Arbinger Institute, shares secrets on how to build influence by focusing on helping things go right.  The podca</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>parenting, parenting Pyramid, marriage advice, marriage counseling, discipline, </itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:duration>00:19:51</itunes:duration>
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      <title>Teenage Value Differences Between Parents</title>
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      <description>What can a parent do when their child has different values.  This podcast discuses the value of sex and how parents can help a teen child understand the different messages about sex.  The same principles can be applied to differences between couples.  </description>
      <content:encoded>What can a parent do when their child has different values.  This podcast discuses the value of sex and how parents can help a teen child understand the different messages about sex.  The same principles can be applied to differences between couples.  </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 14:02:10 GMT</pubDate>
      <itunes:subtitle>Teenage Value Differences Between Parents</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:summary>What can a parent do when their child has different values.  This podcast discuses the value of sex and how parents can help a teen child understand the different messages about sex.  The same principles can be applied to differences between couples.  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>sex, teens, parents, values</itunes:keywords>
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      <title>The Five Love Languages</title>
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      <description>Troy and Aaron discuss the ways in which people experience love and how sometimes we miss giving love in a way that those we care about want it.  The love styles are: service, gifts, touch, time, and talking.  </description>
      <content:encoded>Troy and Aaron discuss the ways in which people experience love and how sometimes we miss giving love in a way that those we care about want it.  The love styles are: service, gifts, touch, time, and talking.  </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2009 15:36:55 GMT</pubDate>
      <itunes:subtitle>The Love Languages</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:summary>Troy and Aaron discuss the ways in which people experience love and how sometimes we miss giving love in a way that those we care about want it.  The love styles are: service, gifts, touch, time, and talking.  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>love languages, love, parenting, </itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:duration>00:16:04</itunes:duration>
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      <title>How to have a heart at peace</title>
      <link>http://www.lovingmarriagelovingfamily.com/media/howtoheartatpeace.mp3</link>
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      <description>We talk about how to achieve a heart at peace, and share ways that spouses and parents can stop to reflect on themselves.  We talked about being aware of how you view others, taking time away from the “family soup”, listening to others who are role models or who inspire you, and aligning with others who have influence.  We also invite you to make comments on the blog post.  </description>
      <content:encoded>We talk about how to achieve a heart at peace, and share ways that spouses and parents can stop to reflect on themselves.  We talked about being aware of how you view others, taking time away from the “family soup”, listening to others who are role models or who inspire you, and aligning with others who have influence.  We also invite you to make comments on the blog post.  </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 21:34:18 GMT</pubDate>
      <itunes:subtitle>How to have a heart at peace</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:summary>We talk about how to achieve a heart at peace, and share ways that spouses and parents can stop to reflect on themselves.  We talked about being aware of how you view others, taking time away from the “family soup”, listening to others who are role models</itunes:summary>
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      <itunes:duration>00:14:47</itunes:duration>
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      <title>"The Choice" in making a healthy relationship</title>
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      <description>The choice in a successful relationship is in how we view the other person: as a problem or a person with the same needs as our self.  This episode talks about how we fall into treating others poorly and how we have to inflate ourselves as being better than we really are when we do treat others poorly.</description>
      <content:encoded>The choice in a successful relationship is in how we view the other person: as a problem or a person with the same needs as our self.  This episode talks about how we fall into treating others poorly and how we have to inflate ourselves as being better than we really are when we do treat others poorly.</content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2009 11:54:09 GMT</pubDate>
      <itunes:subtitle>"The Choice" in making a healthy relationship</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:summary>The choice in a successful relationship is in how we view the other person: as a problem or a person with the same needs as our self.  This episode talks about how we fall into treating others poorly and how we have to inflate ourselves as being better th</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>marriage, family, parenting, teens, </itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:duration>00:21:33</itunes:duration>
      <category>Kids &amp; Family</category>
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      <title>Impossible Teens Part Two:  How to Influence Your Teen</title>
      <link>http://www.lovingmarriagelovingfamily.com/media/impossibleteens2.mp3</link>
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      <dc:creator>Troy Faddis LMFT and Dr. Aaron Shaw LMFT</dc:creator>
      <description>In this episode we continue our look at Terrance Olson's article on building relationships with our children through exploration rather than accusation.  </description>
      <content:encoded>In this episode we continue our look at Terrance Olson's article on building relationships with our children through exploration rather than accusation.  </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Fri, 20 Mar 2009 11:02:31 GMT</pubDate>
      <itunes:subtitle>How to Influence Your Teen</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:summary>In this episode we continue our look at Terrance Olson's article on building relationships with our children through exploration rather than accusation.  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>Teen, Teenager, parenting, Teens, </itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:duration>00:17:40</itunes:duration>
      <category>Kids &amp; Family</category>
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      <title>Impossible Teens: The Secret to Influential Parenting (Part One)</title>
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      <description>How to parent impossible teens.  The three keys to being influential with your child.  </description>
      <content:encoded>How to parent impossible teens.  The three keys to being influential with your child.  </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 09:58:14 GMT</pubDate>
      <itunes:subtitle>How to parent impossible teens.  The three keys to being influential with your child.  </itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:summary>How to parent impossible teens.  The three keys to being influential with your child.  </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>parenting, teens, teenagers, impossible, difficult, help</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:duration>00:16:30</itunes:duration>
      <category>Kids &amp; Family</category>
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      <title>Why Men Won't Commit to Marriage: Part Two</title>
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      <comments>http://www.lovingmarriagelovingfamily.com/media/Why%20Men%20Dont%20Commit%20Part%20Two.mp3</comments>
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      <dc:creator>Troy Faddis LMFT and Dr. Aaron Shaw LMFT</dc:creator>
      <description>We review the second half of the ten reasons.  Why are men so allured by the single life?  What pressures are there and what pressures are missing.   </description>
      <content:encoded>We review the second half of the ten reasons.  Why are men so allured by the single life?  What pressures are there and what pressures are missing.   </content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2009 11:29:23 GMT</pubDate>
      <itunes:subtitle>Second part of "Why men don't commit to marriage"</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:summary>We review the second half of the ten reasons.  Why are men so allured by the single life?  What pressures are there and what pressures are missing.   </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>marriage, love, family, sex, men, commitment, advice, help, relationship, relationships, marry, men, lack of commitment, </itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:duration>00:14:04</itunes:duration>
      <category>Kids &amp; Family</category>
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      <title>Why Men Won't Commit To Marriage</title>
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      <description>We review the 2002 State of Our Unions report about the top ten reasons men don't commit to marriage</description>
      <content:encoded>We review the 2002 State of Our Unions report about the top ten reasons men don't commit to marriage</content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2009 10:22:46 GMT</pubDate>
      <itunes:subtitle>Improve your marriage.  Learn how to approach difficult family situations.  </itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:summary>We review the 2002 State of Our Unions report about the top ten reasons men don't commit to marriage</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>Marriage, men, commitment, commit, sex, love, </itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:duration>00:18:41</itunes:duration>
      <category>Kids &amp; Family</category>
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      <title>PREP and RELATE; a good combination for marriage education.</title>
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      <dc:creator>Troy Faddis LMFT and Dr. Aaron Shaw LMFT</dc:creator>
      <description>This Podcast gives an overview of the purpose of the Marriage and Family Education Center's website.  It discusses the RELATE evaluation and PREP marriage class.  Troy discusses the most common negative interaction style: pursue and withdraw and it's impact on a marriage.</description>
      <content:encoded>This Podcast gives an overview of the purpose of the Marriage and Family Education Center's website.  It discusses the RELATE evaluation and PREP marriage class.  Troy discusses the most common negative interaction style: pursue and withdraw and it's impact on a marriage.</content:encoded>
      <pubDate>Sat, 17 Jan 2009 23:24:38 GMT</pubDate>
      <itunes:subtitle>Love your marriage, love your family</itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:summary>This Podcast gives an overview of the purpose of the Marriage and Family Education Center's website.  It discusses the RELATE evaluation and PREP marriage class.  Troy discusses the most common negative interaction style: pursue and withdraw and it's impa</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:keywords>marriage, family, love, help, relationship, relationships, about marriage, help, change, advice</itunes:keywords>
      <itunes:duration>00:10:00</itunes:duration>
      <category>Kids &amp; Family</category>
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